How To Behave In Such A Way That Everyone Likes You
Look, when you try to deepen your understanding and strive to see reality, you tend to settle on a common ground. This is a common behavior because you all behave equally, as you have understood reality.
How to behave in such a way that everyone likes you?
How to behave in such a way that everyone likes you, see if you understand deep within your own cycle of logical patterns, meaning understand your nature, then you understand everyone else. Because you're not different from humans, you understand humanity itself, and the more you understand yourself, the more you understand others. Do you understand that you understand how you react in certain situations, so you also understand how others will react in similar situations. So fundamentally, if you actually want to do something so that people like you, then you just have to increase your likeability factor.
Likeability.
Alright, when we find some common ground that is the same for both us and the other person, then when based on those mutual interests, we do something that the other person also likes, and we both have an interest in it, then a connection is formed, a connection that is very strong, like a dip. That connection feels very connected, like what I'm writing now, what I'm thinking, I'm writing it, so it seems like I'm interested in it and you're also learning something from it, you understand? So in this way, if you find a common ground by searching, and if you understand the emotions of the other person and understand their behavior, basically now see, one thing is common ground, meaning you have found a common thing based on your interests and the other person's interests, on which you can establish a good friendship between the two of you, and somewhere there is an interest between you two, that becomes the basis of your friendship, and somewhere, both of your personalities are dominantly different, meaning everyone has their own basic nature based on their background. For example, if I like cricket, you might also like football, it's not necessary that you also like cricket, do you understand? If there is a conflict here that I like something else and you like something else, then establishing a connection here is a bit difficult. So, where both of your interests are the same.
How to make someone who doesn't like you, like you.
See, one thing we've learned, which is the most important according to me, is the ground reality that you have some common interests in you and the other person also has some common interests. Now, it's about going behind that call, meaning going behind that common thing, and only one thing is required, that you have to increase your likeability factor.
The point is, when you talk to someone with this awareness and understand the other person's feelings, you understand them, then you see them in yourself completely, and when that happens, your vibe also becomes different, your perspective of understanding also becomes different, and then there is a sudden connection that becomes very strong, and then the connection remains, the other person will not hate you even if they want to, because they also feel like you're feeling, that you're not just an acquaintance, but you've already been good friends. Because now you're not just talking about me, you're also taking an interest in them, because you're seeing yourself in them. When you see yourself, you also like yourself, right? Self-love happens when someone sees you, because they see that you're not just in one place, you're everywhere, because the energy form I've created from, and the one you've created from, there's no difference between them. Everything is connected, I didn't mention the - - - , so I'll cover that later. So, now I won't talk about this. Now it's important to understand just this much, that when you talk about things that interest the other person, and also interest you, meaning when you both get together on a topic or take it up with your personalities, then you have a good bonding between you, then even if someone wants to hate you, they won't be able to, they'll always stay connected.
How to achieve success in life, how to mold yourself, how to define your own thoughts or yourself so that success is from failure, we just have to focus on our work. I have written a blog about this, you can read it if you're interested. And for now, thank you.
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